Krodh !

Getting angry may seem normal but some people get excessively angry on some petty and silly issues. It made me wonder what makes such people angry excessively.

I read a lot of things about it and derived some personal conclusions from those readings.

Getting excessively angry is a sign of

1) Low Confidence :-

People who get more angry generally have low confidence and self esteem. They feel inferior to everyone.

2) Under achievers :-

These people are under achievers. They feel thay have achieved very less than what they can. They always feel they can do things in a more better way but always tend to under perform which leads to frustration.

3) A Hole in life :-

This according to me is the most important factor leading to excessive anger. Of course you may not agree but Its just my personal opinion.

Whats a ‘’Hole in life ‘’ ? A Hole in a Life is a thing or a shortcoming or a deficiency which is irrepairable. A loss which is irreplaceable. A Void in life which cannot be filled ( even by M-Seal :D) hahaha.

Some examples of the so called ‘’ hole in life’’ are

a)Losing your loved one especially at an early age.

b)Failure in Love

c)Being Handicapped

and many such reasons.

I want to indicate the losses which cannot be replaced. One has to live with it throughout his life.

I dont really know how to end. But i would admit that i am in this category and i am trying to improve myself and control my anger..

Would love to know your opinions about this type of Anger !

And remember, Krodh ke dwara manushya nyay ke path par nahi chal sakta :)

Non Sense !

Just read in a newspaper, 'Two year license for marriage proposed in mexico city'. Non Sense was the first word which came to my mind. Doesn't that sound ridiculous ?
I mean they check if they can live together for two years and if yes, then they must renew their license after the completion of two years. Why marry if you cant trust each other ? I think marriages are losing their importance all over the world. Soon a day will come when marriages will be a rare thing.
Many Traditional & Important rituals and methods are rapidly changing. Some are changing for good but most of them are changing in a negative way. The world has come closer but the distance between people is increasing day by day. :(

How would you like to be remembered ?

I Love this Short Story :-
About a hundred years ago, a man looked at the morning newspaper and to his surprise and horror, read his name in the obituary column. The news papers had reported the death of the wrong person by mistake. His first response was shock. Am I here or there? When he regained his composure, his second thought was to find out what people had said about him. The obituary read, "Dynamite King Dies." And also "He was the merchant of death." This man was the inventor of dynamite and when he read the words "merchant of death," he asked himself a question, "Is this how I am going to be remembered?" He got in touch with his feelings and decided that this was not the way he wanted to be remembered. From that day on, he started working toward peace. His name was Alfred Nobel and he is remembered today by the great Nobel Prize.
Just as Alfred Nobel got in touch with his feelings and redefined his values, we should step back and do the same.

What is your legacy?

How would you like to be remembered?

Will you be spoken well of?

Will you be remembered with love and respect?

Will you be missed?

Give it a Thought. Answer these questions friends.

I Love My Friends !

I Love my friends. I want to describe each of them because their names will be surely mentioned in my later blogs.

Nupura a.k.a Nuppu :- A good friend of mine who understands my silence & can read my eyes. I can write a 1000 pages book on her but it would be too tiring. She has the best pair of eyes in this world. The thing which hurts me is that I am not a good friend of her. She never needs me. Even in her bad Times. But for me, She is Very Very Special.

Pooja a.k.a Cindy :- One of my Bestest and Sweetest Friend. She is very scholar, Well Mannered & Most Importantly, always cheerful, lively & Energetic. Full of Life. She Cares for me a lot. She is very sweet. She manages almost all the things with perfection & ease without fuss or bother. I am short of adjectives. She is my ‘Punching Bag ‘ coz I always share my Sadness with her and Irritate her a lot.

Statutory Warning :- Never sit besides her to watch a movie. Coz she is a couple of minutes ahead of the cast and crew & hence kills the suspense & causes a considerable amount of Sound Pollution.

Vishal a.k.a Vish :- Vish is a true Genius ! He is a complete Sports Freak (Like me).The only thing this man lacks is PUNCTUALITY (Unlike me).He is also quite moody But rarely loses his cool. He is Techno Freak too. He has a great sense of Humour. He is my second ‘Punching Bag ‘ coz I always share my Sadness with him and Irritate him a lot. He is my Besssst MATE !

Monisha :- A very good & Scholar friend of mine. She has a good sense of humour. She sounds rude at times but is sweet at heart. She is a very good person & an ideal friend.

Tanvi :- She is truly unique. She never gets sad. Always happy and spreads happiness. Lively, Energetic. She is a very good & Sweet friend of mine.

Priyanka a.k.a Pri:- SRK Fan hai yaar. So she has to be a good person. Great friend and sweet person.

Bhupesh a.k.a Bhopi:- This guy is quite a character. A very good person. He stays very close to my house so we spend lot of time together.

I Love you all my Friends ! : )